We’ve all had our “icks” — those little quirks, habits, or behaviors that make someone instantly less attractive. But a recent viral Reddit thread is taking things to the next level, suggesting that even someone’s career can be a dealbreaker.
The thread asks: “What profession would you never date?” and over 6,000 Reddit users were quick to spill their most brutally honest takes. The responses range from understandable to hilarious — and a few may even make you rethink your current relationship.
Here are some of the most mentioned “no-go” careers:
- Chef: “100% would not date a chef. Been a chef for 30 years. My people are the worst.”
- Influencer: “Being with someone who has to constantly broadcast every aspect of their life sounds exhausting.”
- Politician: “The public scrutiny and recognition alone makes it an instant hard pass.”
- Law Enforcement: Many shared concerns about stress, unpredictability, and even safety.
- Real Estate Agent: “I hate salespeople, and I feel like they’re the ultimate salesperson.”
- Teacher: “They were always sick. I’m not a germaphobe but I absolutely hate being sick.”
- Pilot: “My friend is a flight attendant. The amount of married pilots he’s slept with is insane.”
- Psychologist: “Nobody needs a psychologist more than a psychologist does.”
- Nurse: “They work too much, strange hours, and I'd like to be able to actually see the person I'm dating.”
- OnlyFans Model and Elvis Impersonator also made the list — with zero sugar-coating.
Even bakers got roasted: “They have an opposing sleep schedule to mine.”
It’s worth noting that many of these opinions come from personal experience — and often, they reflect deeper concerns about compatibility, lifestyle, or values.
At the end of the day, it’s not just about what someone does — it’s about how that profession affects their life, relationships, and priorities. Still, the responses are a wild ride.
So, what about you? Is there a profession that’s a hard “no” in your dating world?